Welcome to the forum @Kk234
My suggestion is to be very selective and carefully “screen” the sits that you apply for .
For example read ALL the previous reviews from sitters . Take careful note of what they say ( or do not say ) about cleanliness , pet behaviours, host’s communication and the responsibilities .
Take note of the responsibility section of the listing if it seems like too much and you won’t have any free time DO NOT apply .
Sometimes ( not always ) there is a good reason why the sit shows as LOW Applications - because experienced sitters have seen something that’s a Red Flag
and are not going to apply to such a sit .
ALWAYS have a video call with the host BEFORE accepting a sit .
Discuss all the responsibilities with the host - ask is there any thing else that isn’t in the listing . Ask to see the Welcome Guide .
Ask how long they usually leave the pet alone for ?
Ask how often they would like updates ? -
Ask if the pets are registered with a vet, do they have any medical conditions and if their flea preventative treatment is up to date ?You can ask this in a conversational way - “we had a sit where the dog had fleas so now we always check before accepting a sit “
Most importantly before even looking at listings is to Set your own boundaries . What is a mutual exchange for you ? How much time in the day are you prepared to spend on caring for the pets v how much “free time “ do you expect to visit the area ? What responsibilities are you happy to do / what are you not prepared to do ?
We all have our own boundaries and that is what a mutual exchange is about . You can’t change the host and their expectations. You can respect your own boundaries by declining any sit that has deal breakers for you .
For example these are some of my dealbreakers- I would not take a sit that asked me to train their pet , or where the pets are expected to sleep in/on the bed with me . I won’t do gardening or mow the lawn but I am happy to water plants . I’ll willing send a daily update ( if that’s what the host requests ) but I wouldn’t accept a sit where the host requires updates more than once a day . I won’t accept a sit where a pet can’t be left alone .
By carefully screening the sits that we have applied for and accepted, we have had over 40 very positive sits with lovely pets, comfortable homes and hospitable, appreciative hosts . We have received great reviews .