Iām sorry but I think you sound mean. We sitters are saving you a fortune in pet care and youāre upset because theyāve used your olive oil and washing powder.
Help yourself to my leftovers but donāt even think about touching anything fresh is not the way to treat guests in your home.
..and we are guests, please stop equating the stay as us staying in an Airbnb - itās starting to grate on my nerves. You placed a listing inviting someone to stay because you want your pets cared for whilst you are away - It is literally impossible for us to do that if we do not stay in your home.
The alternative is to employ a paid āprofessionalā sitter. They will charge you a considerable amount of cash AND stay in your home.