It’s a while since I posted on this forum. I learnt loads from it, and the wisdom has been priceless. But I find the ‘badges’ irritating, patronising, and a tiny bit sinister. Plus, it spooked me a bit to find another member was collecting and analysing my stats, however well-intentioned.
Anyway, I’m dropping in to say I won’t renew my membership next time. I said I wouldn’t when overlapping sits were stopped, but when the time came I caved, as enough of our sits are off TH to make overlaps possible for us, and I wanted to keep my options open.
But this crosses a thick red line for me, emphasising how TH has evolved from a caring, collaborative community to a cynical, greedy shareholder service, using home owners, sitters and animals as units for profit.
I’ve seen up close other greedy corporations, the more their profits increase the greedier they get, cutting roles in the name ‘efficiency’ so service becomes worse and worse, and remaining staff become stressed and fearful.
This is not a business model, or a worldview, I want to support. My future house sits will be based on relationship and reciprocity.
As my partner and I have increasingly sat off TH, our key learning has been to agree conditions that are important to us and the home owner at the outset, so everyone is less likely to take liberties with no ‘rules’ to stop them. This has generally worked - and where it hasn’t, I simply haven’t gone back. It’s taken us a while, but we’ve both now built enough repeat sits that we know and love; that feel like authentic, relational community.