Hi Bamboo
My husband and I are full time sitters and have been for many years. This lifestyle definitely isnât for everyone, so if you are struggling with it, and decide itâs not really for you, thatâs okay. That you arenât adapting so well doesnât mean you must be doing something wrong.
It is easy to make this sort of lifestyle look very glamorous, but the reality can be quite different. Some peopleâs preferences and personalities just donât gel well with what is required to live this way and the sorts of challenges that inevitably arise.
No matter how much we want a certain experience or how much seems appealing about it, we really donât know how we will feel until we are actually doing it. And what we think we want may not be what we actually want once we get a taste.
There are all sorts of ânegativeâ things we donât anticipate or think much aboutâoften lots of little things that add upâthat make the experience totally different than what we thought.
There are certainly times I feel a bit weary moving from place to place, but overall I love it and I know that at least for now, I wouldnât want to live any other way. I feel very confident in my ability to book sits we find very desirable, so I really donât ever feel any major stress about planning.
You may find making some tweaks to how you go about booking sits, the types of places you stay, length of the sit,etcâŚmay make you feel differently.
It is important to examine the motivations behind our decisions, as that will affect how we experience what follows.
Moving towards a very wanted experience is very different than trying to move away from a negative one.
For example, someone who decided to house sit full time simply to reduce financial pressure without really having a true desire to live this way would probably have a very different experience of the various challenges than someone who is really drawn to this lifestyle overall.
If we donât have a strong âpositiveâ motivator for following a certain path, we probably wonât want to stay on that path as the challenging elements will not seem worth it, since we actually donât want to be doing what we are doing.
If you still feel like you want to give it a shot, other posters gave some good advice about practical tips that I would recommend as wellâsuch as longer sitsâand you may start feeling differently. But again, if you find it isnât for you, thatâs okay. You didnât fail at anything.