That is strange they would stay for two nights of only a 5 night sit. I have had sits where we did arrive a couple of days early and stayed with the HOâs but these were usually longer term sits where there was a bit more to cover, or because of our arrival time, or the ownerâs schedule, having a couple of days to get acclimated was better. And we were always aware they would be there those initial days.
As for coming home the night before the sit was scheduled to end, many HOs prefer to book the sitter until the next day to account for any travel delays if they are flying, especially from a distance and/or they will be getting in very late .
I have no problem with this, and in my experience, HOs have been pretty clear they will actually be arriving the day before the end date listed. So while returning the day earlier than stated in the listing isnât necessarily any sort of âviolationâ in my eyes, they definitely should have mentioned this was the plan, since barring any mention of this intention, it would be natural for the sitter to assume the HO will not be coming home until the end date noted in their listing.
And for the future, in cases where this is mentioned ahead of time and there didnât seem to be any reason for you to stay on that extra dayâno late night arrivals,etcâŚâyou could say you wouldnât be able to accommodate that.
Definitely a good learning experience and getting more detailed info about their travel plans will probably be one of your main questions moving forward.
You mentioned you hadnât experienced this with other sits, and not sure how long you have been doing this. I am not sure if you mean that that they simply didnât mention they were not leaving the day you arrived, or you werenât aware that sometimes HOs invite sitters to come at least one night early to get to know each other, go over everything,etc.
If the former applies, as someone who has done over 70 sits, I donât think I have ever had an instance where the HO ended up staying in the home and I didnât know about it prior. So I donât think this is super common.
But if the latter applies, you should know that some HOs do want the sitter to arrive at least a day early and you will be sharing space with them. If that is something you are not comfortable with, when applying to sits, ask about the dates and their plans and you can take a pass, or you can book accommodation nearby and maintain your own space. Not sure how many sitters do the latter though.