Don’t assume that the sitter didn’t already do a video chat and ask their long list of questions due to such a brief HO posting.
This still happens when the HO doesn’t tell the full story until the pet sitter arrives. I am guessing the HO knows it would be hard to find a free sitter if they gave the full story upfront. Then the THS review system then puts the sitter in a tough spot.
I’m glad things are working out so marvelously for you obviously you have some special talents for reading between the lines.