My husband and I are currently on our second sit. I must add that this sit was agreed through another site, we have since joined THS and as new sitters are finding this forum invaluable.
We are having a very stressful experience. This has been a steep learning curve and we accept some responsibility for this experience perhaps due to our own naivety and inexperience, in that, with the benefit of hindsight there are many questions we could or should have asked but didn’t think of.
We responded to an advert on another site for “two very well behaved puppies 6 months old”
The ad had a Yes/No box for security cameras which was marked NO
We had a zoom call with the owner who stated one of the puppies was showing signs of being in season imminently and that it was expected to be over by the time we arrived a month later.
Upon arriving at the sit the owner had already left for her trip, leaving a set of written instructions and a handover with her partner ( who doesn’t live with her )
The first issue was the partner told us about cameras linked to their phones to monitor the pets, we hadn’t thought to ask about this on the zoom call as the ad stated NO. The devices are two way audio. We had an awkward situation, when the owner wasn’t happy about our request to turn them off, we eventually agreed that we would turn them back on if we went out.
The second issue was that the set of written instructions stated in capital letters and bold type “PUPS ARE NOT ALLOWED UPSTAIRS” and also stated that the female was due in season imminently and so they had to sleep separately downstairs.
The first few nights were a nightmare, the cameras were still on, we could not get the pets to settle at all, constant whining and barking for hours, and every time we came down to try to settle them we were conscious of the cameras on us in our nightwear , feeling like we were being watched.
After 3 hours not wishing to disrespect the owners rules nor the pets routine and feeling like we must be missing something, we came down and slept on the sofa with the pets separated in the same room with us.
On a call with the owner the next day after a rough night she confessed the NO PUPS UPSTAIRS RULE was her partners rule ( he doesn’t live there through the week ) and she had changed the notes to reflect his wishes because he didn’t want to encourage them upstairs. She “confessed” ( her words) to allowing the pups not only upstairs but ON HER BED when her partner is away because it is the only way she gets any sleep and can get up for work the next day.
We were furious , because our sleepless nights and stress could have been avoided had she written accurate notes.
For us there are three issues, the cameras, the fact the female had not gone into season as expected before we arrived and we had not been told about this, so upon arriving we were faced with dealing with this and the challenging task of keeping the pups separate at all times , and the inconsistency between her and her partner in sleeping arrangements, not reflected in our notes.
All of this has made it a very stressful time. We accept some responsibility for perhaps not asking the right questions, but feel very let down by the owner about what we perceive to be a lack of trust and transparency.
Suggestions from more experienced sitters appreciated, we still have more than a week left here.