It’s luck that after speaking with the person and reading the WG the sit is as described. I am on a sit now and I am their first sitter. No reviews and no mention that this pretty cat is aggressive. It would have been luck if the cat was as described. They did say he didn’t like men but I am not a man. I never thought to ask does he attack men since he is owned by a man and women. He never attacked me but shows his teeth and hisses one minute at me and rubbing and purring on me the next. I am very cautious with this cat.
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I would’ve said not at not being able to use the dishwasher.
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It will be a while but will do 
Thank you & yes, it is
That doesn’t bother me
Well done on both your and the HO’s parts . A shining example of communication.
Now: You OWE us a pic of the canine fashioinista !
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I would mention factually in a review to ensure they get the right sitters in the future. I’ve done that myself, and the host answered that it was exactly how the pet was. I believe it can be done in a nice and kind way.
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Less experienced sitters ( as most of us are) should read and learn from this post.
@Smiley has just given us all a masterclass on how to approach, and resolve a sitter/home host issue. 
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Hi @Smiley,
I saw this listing and the dog trousers was a new thing for me. I thought, “Can’t be doing that every time we go walkies” and scrolled on. The WG sounds a bit mean-spirited. Hopefully, it’s only cold & formal on paper and you’ll have a warm welcome on arrival. I wish. you all the best.
Just read your update - glad you feel better about it.
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The non-welcoming tone described and not using the dishwasher aren’t explained away by the host’s apology. The host basically backed down when called out, even if done politely. To me, this doesn’t sound like a sit worth doing, but of course each of us chooses our own sits based on our individual priorities and preferences.
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Bless you @Colin x
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Well, he responded very well and was upset that I thought his words came across as demeaning as didn’t mean them to. Also the lack of dishwasher doesn’t bother me.
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I often don’t use the dishwasher, because I sit solo and typically sit only a week or two at a time. I don’t want to be told that I can’t use it, though, because that seems like a lack of hospitality, unless it’s malfunctioning or such.
I think of it like when other sitters have described hosts who put salt, sugar or spices off limits. It seems mean and unwelcoming. And I don’t even use hosts’ spices, because I never cook.
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I was thinking how to write the review. I think you are correct and I thank you for that. Appreciate the advice. The PP were lovely people, the house comfortable and very little responsibility at that house. I don’t want to discourage anyone from sitting there. I would be their first review. I was thinking of starting with all the good and then stating the cats aggressive side and suggest to not maintain eye contact when he is like this and walk away. (Maintaining eye contact is a threat and I would hate to see someone hurt. Although I wouldn’t sat that ). Then a woman can make up her own mind to sit or not as they will only take a woman as they say the cat doesn’t like men.
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I had a sit where they left the washer full of dirty clothes and the dryer full of clothes too. I assume to dissuade me from using it.
Did you leave the clothes in the washer to go mouldy? 
I’m so glad to see this update 
I really hope you enjoy the sit when it starts
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I just finished a sit that was crazy micro managed. I got 5 stars but barely. She said i couldn’t handle complexity. I was only good for walking dogs and housekeeping. And what else am i there for? To do stupid training rituals like running away when i see another dog on the street? She asked me what she could do to attract other sitters. Norhing. I replied she should consider getting paid sitters.
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Thanks Jenny
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