Hello @PrettyKitty13, it sounds like you trusted your gut regarding this sit as both parties need to feel comfortable moving forward. I am sorry to hear there was any confusion about travel expenses and the use of a car.
They may as previously mentioned be newer members of the website. This doesn’t necessarily mean that they do not fit with the ethos of THS, but maybe they needed some guidance and education. If you feel that any member is not understanding or using the site as it is intended you can always let Membership Services know at support@trustedhousesitters.com and they can reach out to them and guide them when using the site.
Here is a help desk article that talks about travel expenses:
You can also post your sit in the last-minute sit category on the forum:
I can see that you have one new applicant and I hope that you secure a sitter soon. If you need any more help please feel free to let me know 