A couple of days ago, I withdrew my application for a sit, because I’d seen better sits come along and the host hadn’t replied yet. After I canceled, the host msg’d to say they were very interested in my application and to please let them know if I changed my mind. I msg’d back that I’d be open to discussing, because it’s a city that’s only about two hours from me — even if I couldn’t do the current sit, maybe I could do one down the road.
The host read my msg and didn’t reply, so, shrug, I didn’t care, but it got me thinking about how to better weed out sluggish hosts. So that morning, I experimented with my wording in another application. I essentially said I don’t wait around for slow hosts to decide. Funny thing, it worked and the host of the second sit replied right away and asked to do a video mtg the next day. We did that and they offered me the sit within an hour later, over another sitter they were talking with.
During the video call, the host mentioned how I’d nicely expressed that I don’t wait around for slow hosts, LOL. I highlight this, because other sitters might want to experiment in their own words, if they want to not wait on slow hosts.
Personally, I dislike dealing with sluggish people anywhere in life. And I don’t mind being upfront about it and missing out on sits where hosts are slow. I find that I get good sits (sometimes much better ones). For instance, I withdrew my application from a sluggish host several months ago and ended up quickly landing a terrific sit abroad — one so good I’ve agreed to repeat, even though I usually prefer variety instead of repeats.
And in the case of the slow host I mentioned above, their sit is in a U.S. city that’s not in high demand (but I like history) and I can always find a sit there some other time. Meanwhile, the sit I accepted from the decisive host is for a beautiful waterfront property that’s much harder to come by.
To me, why not experiment, because there are always more sits being posted. For my purposes, my msg might put off some hosts. That probably will work to my advantage, because they’re not the hosts I ideally want to deal with anyway, LOL.