Hello everyone,
I’d like to share my situation and ask for advice on how to move forward.
I accepted a sit on TrustedHousesitters — caring for two lovely cats in Cyprus from July 23 or 25 to September 13. The host and I confirmed the dates and discussed all details. I made it clear from the beginning that I’m traveling with two children, aged 14 and 3. I purchased flights for all of us from Rome and arrived a bit early. I also rented a car for the entire stay. Everything was prepared for the move-in.
But the day before the sit was supposed to begin, the host messaged me to say that one of the cats had gone missing. She asked if we could delay our arrival by a couple of days in case he came back. We had a call — she was clearly very upset. I completely understood, and extended our hotel stay at my own expense for two extra nights.
After two days, the cat still hadn’t returned, and the host decided not to travel at all until he is found. She told me she’s still happy to host us once the cat comes back and she can resume her trip.
To avoid being left on the street, we found very budget-friendly accommodation together, and agreed to split the cost 50/50. However, that stay ends tomorrow, and now I’m facing a difficult situation.
I can’t apply for a new sit because these dates are already confirmed in the system. Returning to my home country or elsewhere would be incredibly expensive, and booking new accommodation is just not in my budget — especially traveling with two small children. We’re now in a foreign country, without a clear plan or solution.
Of course, I fully understand how devastating it is to lose a beloved pet. I send my heartfelt sympathy and sincerely hope Pablo comes back soon. I’m even happy to help with the search if needed. But at the same time, I’ve been left in a very vulnerable position.
Has anyone been through something similar?
How did you handle it?
Any advice would be deeply appreciated.
Thank you in advance.