Sounds like the end of this sit can’t come quickly enough for you. As far as a review goes, start with any positives and keep it brief about the cleanliness. I’d write ‘it was most disappointing to find the home had a number of cleanliness issues’ As a sitter, I’d take that as a red flag.
Back in 2019, reviews were different. At that time, they were not “blind,” and also, there were no ratings for individual categories (sitter reviewing an owner).
Currently, reviews are blind, and there are 5 categories plus an overall star rating.
When you write your review, you might be able to give them 5 stars on some of the categories, but overall, it sounds like a 2 star sit (smokers in a dirty house), and obviously, cleanliness is a 1-2 stars.
If you simply mention “the owners smoke cigarettes” and “the home was not clean on arrival,” that would be enough to put off most sitters.
Thank you all for your kind advice and support. It is a shame we cannot upload photos on the review as a picture really does paint a thousand words.
We gave a kind review with a low score for cleanliness to protect future sisters-and got slammed.
(photos of home removed by Forum team as per Community Guidelines)