@catwoman4369 Delaying writing your review could have been the issue too. Most sitters really appreciate getting a review quickly so they can move on. They do get notified as soon as a review is written. The message encourages them to write theirs too, if they haven’t already, so that they can immediately read the new review. If you delayed your review the sitter may have felt you didn’t prioritise her enough. And, as you say, if she was waiting she may have run out of time.
Many sitters are still conditioned to the old system of open reviews where it was very common to wait for the host to review first before writing their own for fear of retaliation if they wrote anything negative. Blind reviews were brought in to try and change these patturns but many people are still very reluctant to write anything negative and may instead choose to write nothing.
The only real way to know is to ask her!
In future I’d suggest write your review in the first day or two after the sit ends and if you don’t receive your review soon after then directly request one either privately or via the App. Reviews are important both ways and they are the currency of THS.