If it can go wrong, it has gone wrong!

Hi everyone!
My first post, and boy it’s a doozy lol.
I’m currently on a dog sit, my fifth of six consecutive over the last 3 months. I was hesitant to accept it, honestly, as it wasn’t really ideal with my plan and communication wasn’t great, but I felt bad saying no as they’re new to THS, and they were so keen to have an experienced sitter as their dog has some medical concerns. I should have trusted my gut and not been such a pleaser!

Anyway, we are where we are and the responsibility is on me. I own it.

And by that… It really is on me. I have never had anything less than a stellar sit in my 9 years on platform and more than a dozen sits. I take my responsibilities seriously and try to be the kind of sitter I want for us.

But…I have f-ed up. Not once, but twice. And we are three days in :woman_facepalming:t2:

First, I lost the key this afternoon. I only went one place (grocery store), and I know I took it because I have to lock the door with it when going. Rooted through the car (thinking maybe it fell under the seat), drove back to store, looked all over the car park, asked at the desk, looked all through the store, and of course left my number. Nothing. It has vanished. Gone. Thankfully, the dog was with me so she wasn’t locked in alone. Equally, thankfully, the back window opens onto a private garden, and wasn’t locked. I was able to come through there. There’s a spare in the house so I’ve already had another cut, but ugh. I am not looking forward to telling HO (we have a time difference).

Then… worse.

After finishing my dinner, I was cleaning Up my dishes. They said I can use the dishwasher, but I’m just one so I just washed my hand as it’s easier. Decided to be helpful and put away clean dishes that were in the dishwasher from them, and noticed big messy splashes on the wall beside it. Oh, I’ll wipe that off, I think, helpfully.

Not helpful. Didn’t think about it, not being semigloss paint.

You know where this is going.

So the wall now has this bald patch… that I’ve created.

I just feel sick about all the issues. I know I won’t get a five-star review, and I’m totally okay with that as it is fully deserved. I don’t care about the review, I care about making it right.

Before I fk things up any further, will I make it worse if I buy a small can of white flat paint to just touch I up that section?

Ugh. Lessons learned: put the key on a ring they haven’t given you one, don’t go over and above, and always trust your gut.

No need to rip me a new one or tell me I’ve messed up. I am well aware and feeling like absolute disaster already.

Thanks for any help.

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You should be able to make those streak marks less noticable. Order yourself some magic sponges off amazon, if you’ve never used them before, you don’t use them like a normal sponge, you just rip a small bit of sponge off, and put some water on the edge of it, so that it’s mainly dry, ie don’t soak it like a normal sponge, and just very VERY lightly stroke it onto the mark and then wipe the mark straight away with a cloth to remove any water marks. I used to own a cleaning business among other things in a former life.

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lol it’s all about the dog and he’s fine. Things happen and Home Owners are human too. Don’t beat yourself up ! Anyone can lose a key or splash a wall. You are not a DIY service. I’d leave it or send a photo to the owners on WhatsApp? But really why spoil their holiday.. relax ! You got back in the house and got over the emergency! That’s what makes a great sitter.
Once you start feeling you’ve failed it can spiral . Re read your 5 star reviews and remind yourself they chose you for a reason!
I think you’re over reacting. For me the dog is the most important thing and he’s fine!

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Don’t beat yourself up, we’ve all had accidents and made mistakes. Losing the key and a patch of faded paint are annoying but none are devastating.

Personally, I would wait till they get home to fess up.

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I did a sit it rained for two weeks solid! Dogs didn’t want to go out ! There was a power cut.. I was locked in as electric gates was only exit..
I didn’t panic. It got solved. The owners were abroad and so grateful I stuck with it.. we had plenty of dog food! If not yes that is time to panic as they start licking you with intent!
Keep your sense of proportion and sense of humour..
nothing else should go wrong now.. you’re still standing dog is fine. Lots has gone right!

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No! The streak marks are what I was trying to clean. The dark grey mark at the bottom is what happened when I tried to wipe them off. The paint comes off the wall with just a dishcloth.

I won’t be doing that.

I am not looking at getting rid of the streaks, which were already there. I’m wanting to repair the bald spot.

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I won’t spoil their holiday with the paint mark, that’ll be something I’ll let them know when they get back if I need to. I’m just hoping to repair it before they do.

I’m aware I’m not a DIY service. But I do return everything At least the same condition I found it, and usually better. This looks horrendous, so I have to fix it.

Maybe I’m built differently, but losing a key, to me a key, to me, is a cardinal sin for a house sitter. That’s already been rectified, I just feel terrible about it. :face_with_diagonal_mouth:

Oh for sure, and as a homeowner myself I wouldn’t give two shits about either of these things.

This homeowner is… not like my husband and I, though. Let’s leave it at that lol.

Anyway. I’ve already resigned myself to a shitty review lol. :woman_facepalming:t2:

You’re probably right. No sense telling Them now, this early in the sit, and just causing the needless stress for the next 9 days.

Have already resigned myself to not getting five stars, so whether I tell them now or then won’t change that, but it will let them have a better holiday.

Ugh. FATE WAS TALKING AND I IGNORED HER lol :woman_facepalming:t2:

If it was a single key and not on a ring and no identity then it’s less of a big deal.
I usually add their house key to my bunch and always have them in the same trousers I go out in. Air tags are great and I may get one to help with this issue.
There are lots of key stories in this community! Great they had a spare you could get a duplicate for. Luckily the window wasn’t locked .. it hasn’t all gone pear shaped..

Well I don’t carry my own house keys when I travel (they’re secured in my pack) but in this instance I have a car hire so I should’ve put it on there. I don’t usually, so I just didn’t think about it.

That’ll teach me.

I remain unreasonably optimistic it will turn up haha.
Either way, you’re right, there’s no sense in ruining their holiday with these mishaps. As I said in another comment, I’ve already resigned myself to a bad reference for this, so whether I tell them now or when they get home that won’t change, and at least it won’t ruin their holiday.

As you can probably tell, this is the first time I’ve had a sit go snaky in any way and I do not like it. :weary_face:

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Have you checked to see if they have leftover paint? Maybe marked “kitchen”? Matching paint for touch-up can be tricky.

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The good news is there was a spare key and you already had a copy made. The one displaced has no address on it. I would tell them about the wall and ask them how you can fix it. They may have something in the house they want you to use. If you try to fix it on your own and it gets worse, they may say why didn’t you ask us. I would think they will appreciate you telling them now and not waiting till they get back. I would anyways.

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Great suggestion, but sadly not (or at least nothing I can see anywhere).

I don’t mind buying a small tin, Just worried that it’s gonna look worse to paint a small spot on a big wall.

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I’ve done worse in the space of a day. You’ve fixed the key issue and the paint issue can be fixed equally easily.

If they are half-human, they’ll say they will touch it up themselves when they get home.

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Just googled Benjamin Moore shades of white … results 335.
So I wouldn’t suggest touching up unless you are prepared to do the entire wall. Which I also wouldn’t do.
Who doesn’t use washable paint in the kitchen?
I would consider telling them now and requesting direction

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I haven’t even been here 48 hours lol :woman_facepalming:t2:

Yes, the key isn’t a major issue (they will know, I’ve replaced it, as the one they gave me had a distinct sticker on it, but no address ie identifying info on it, so should be ok). If our sitter told us that that would happen, we wouldn’t care in the slightest and would just resolve it ourselves.

They are a bit more … fussy than we are though. And being their first sitter, I am keenly aware of setting that standard.

I do take some comfort in knowing that they refused the parcel they said I could have sent here (I had a new laptop battery couriered to me as mine gave out), and now it’s lost.

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I’m not in America so Benjamin Moore isn’t likely an option. I won’t be doing the whole wall for sure.

They let this place so I doubt if it was their choice, but I’m sure damage will be their responsibility unfortunately.

LOL. Just using that as an example as to how futile it may be to attempt matching

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Oh haha ok.

Yeah, turns out that white and black are not standard are they!

I’m waiting until my husband wakes up (I’m in UK; he’s in Singapore to see what he suggests). He’s my DIY guru, So if he says I can safely touch it up, I will take his word for it.

If not… I’ll be telling HO when they get back and offering to pay for the repair.

Here for everyone. When you don’t really wanna take a sit, don’t let yourself be guilted it into taking it. LISTEN TO THE LITTLE VOICE lol. :persevering_face:

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