Same owner, different house - how to tactfully ask

I recently finished a lovely sit and the owner has asked me to look after the dogs again in the summer, but at a different house (his partner’s place in a nearby village). I’m probably up for it, and I would think that the partner’s house would be lovely (I met her briefly), but any suggestions for how I can tactfully ask about the house?

(I’m rather choosy these days, especially in summer, and don’t want to spent two summer weeks in a house that is less than wonderful!).

I don’t really want to say ‘sure, but only if the house is as big/lovely/well appointed/clean as your place!’ :laughing:

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How about “That sounds lovely, thanks for the offer. Could your partner send me over some pics of the lounge, bedroom, bathroom etc so I can see the house please? Also a list of responsibilities would be helpful and then I can let you both know.” Gentle but informative and fair. #itsgoodtotalk

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Thanks Cuttlefish, that’s pretty much what I had in my mind, but sometimes I’m terribly English, and feel some sense of arrogance in the suggestion that ‘yes..but only if the house is up to my standards!’ :melting_face:

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@cuttlefish is right, also simply ask for the full address, they’ll hand it over no problem considering you obviously have a good connection with one another. Then you can go on street view to check out the immediate area too.

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That’s a good idea, but I know the village already - it’s tiny with few houses - but I’m more interested in how modern/tidy etc the house is on the inside.

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Why don’t you suggest a video chat and ask for a tour?

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I asked, using similar words to Cuttlefish’s suggestion. They sent a dozen pics showing a fabulous looking mini-mansion. I have now confirmed the sit!

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@Rhe

There is another thing to consider (if this is going ahead as a THS sit ) , THS will likely say that the Public liability etc isn’t covered because it’s a different house to the one on the listing.

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Yes, that’s a fair point. It’s not til the summer anyway, so I think they will actually alter their listing.

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