Hi again @Lenka,
Yes, your listing is much more readable! And I like what you did with the photo. Minor issue from your listing:
Regarding declines: If you search the forums, youâll find that some very successful sitters still had dozens of declines until their first sit. Similarly, itâs very common to not get a reason for being declined. If a reason isnât given, I would reply to the PP and ask humbly for constructive feedback on finding your first sit.
âFamily friendlyâ filter: Iâm not sure refining the filter would help. What does âlittle kidsâ mean, anyway? Does it matter how many? Gender? Is a 1-year-old a little kid or a baby?
FYI, that flag is set by the question, âIs your sit suitable for sitters with children?â
Rather, think of that filter as a guideline. If there are a ton of sits, it helps you focus a little. If there arenât a ton of sits, feel free to search without that filter. I can think of several reasons that a PP might choose you even if their listing doesnât have the âfamily friendlyâ flag. For example, maybe when they made their listing, they had a part of their home they felt might be dangerous for children. But then they renovated their home and forgot to revisit that question/flag.
Some times are better than others to find a sit. For example, in the U.S., Thanksgiving and Christmas are âa sitterâs market.â Thatâs because everyone wants to go somewhere specific (family). So there are a lot of sits, and a given sit will appeal only to sitters who are flexible or who want to go to that specific place (and havenât made plans already). You may want to plan ahead; for example, by being available during those periods.
Itâs clear from your photos and listing that youâre trying hard to address concerns about sitting with two young boys. As you say the reason is always that, I think itâs good to keep pushing this. Perhaps you can get a reference or two to speak about this, like if your children interacted with their pets. Similarly, where I live there are rural/farming programs where kids learn about animals; so I might say a kid here is enrolled in âFuture Farmers of Americaâ or is raising his own pig for the annual trade show. (The pig is boarded elsewhere, but the kid has to check on it, feed it occasionally, train it, etc.)
Itâs also possible that for one PP a concern might be children around pets, whereas for another PP it might be children around their house.
Random note about photo captions: If you have them, great. But be aware they are viewable only in the app, not on desktop. And to see them in the app you have to tap on a photo first. (Test in the app to see what I mean.) So, some PPs will see your captions, but most(?) wonât. I donât know how to tell if a PP uses the app vs website, or any stats on how many use one vs the other. (I mostly use the website.)
I guess Iâm saying if you have something important to say, make sure itâs not only in a caption.
How far are you getting in the application process? Or let me pose it another way: What is the purpose of a sitterâs profile and application?
Itâs like me asking, âWhatâs the purpose of a job resume?â
The purpose of a job resume is not to get a job. Itâs to get an interview. The interview is where you getâor donât getâthe job. Similarly, your profile might get you an invitation to apply to a favorited sit. Or your profile + app might get you a positive reply from the PP. The smallest example might be a question from the PP, like, âCan you tell me more aboutâŚ?â
Some sitters track their applications in a spreadsheet. Very useful. You could track each application, how far you get in each one, what worked, what didnât, etc.
Rather than the daunting goal of getting your first sit right away, just try to get a little further a little more often: a question from the PP (which means theyâre engaged/curious/open), multiple exchanges with a PP, a voice call, a video call. If you can get to a video call, perhaps your boys can win them over (vs being a concern).
At the very least, the further you get in the application process, the more likely you are to get constructive feedback one way or the other.
BTW, your group of 10 local families sounds very intriguing. It sounds a bit like âcooperative livingâ that Iâve seen in the U.S.
Anyway, those are my thoughts. Be persistent!