Hello! I know there are many similar posts to this, but I’m wondering what I should do in my particular circumstances. I’m sorry it’s so long!
I’ve only been on the platform for a few months and am on my fourth sit (it’s 8 weeks in Europe). Communication from the HO has been extremely poor and although we’re only on day three, and put the HO on her plane yesterday, it’s crystal clear that she has not bothered to read any of her obligations to the sitters, but expects us to jump through a bunch of (unexpected) hoops. We are both really conscientious about our obligations, so have been a bit shocked by our experience so far.
The issues with which I have the biggest problems are:
She informed us upon our arrival here that she will be arriving back two days before we leave. Having spent a day and night with her before her departure, I am extremely uncomfortable with having to spend any more time with her.
She insisted that we fly in to a specific airport so she could pick us up, despite an equidistant airport having much cheaper and better-timed flights, and then made us fill her tank. We had originally planned to take the bus to hers, which would have been cheaper
Since confirming the sit months ago, she has fostered a third pet, requiring special care and medication, which pet is still not on her profile. I don’t really mind, but I feel taken advantage of.
She has been extremely proscriptive about a cleaning schedule, but the house is absolutely filthy. I am deep cleaning in sections as I go, but it’s really icky.
She has a camera covering the whole outdoor space (pergola, pool, driveway, courtyard), which was never mentioned until she asked my help on how to charge it when we arrived. She monitors our movements and called to berate us last night for going out to dinner and leaving the pets alone (there was never at any stage the slightest mention that they should not be left alone). She told me last night that she would not have access to the camera from today, but called today to tell me it will be staying on, and we heard her voice coming through it an hour later!
She assigned us a guest room with an en-suite, but over the 26 hours period that we shared the home, treated it like her own bedroom, walking in and out with no warning, and using the shower despite having her own shower on the other side of the house. So weird!
Within the first few minutes of our first video chat, she had offered me use of her car, which is wonderful, and after our next video call, told me she had put us both on her car insurance for the period, which was great. When we arrived, though, she handed us a ‘form’ to sign (she had typed up and printed a short statement), saying in the event of any damage to her car, we’d be paying for it. This doesn’t seem entirely unreasonable to me, but I’m wondering about its legality. And whether we’re actually on the insurance!
These are just the biggest issues. I’m waiting to get an email from THS support so I can go through it all with them, but would love some feedback from people who may have experienced similar circumstances?
Thank you!